Most of Your Opinions Aren't Really Yours, And You Might Not Think as Independently as You Think

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Adedoyin Oluwadarasimi
Adedoyin Oluwadarasimi
Most of Your Opinions Aren't Really Yours, And You Might Not Think as Independently as You Think

Most people like to believe they think for themselves. Nobody wants to imagine they are simply repeating ideas picked up from parents, religion, politics, school, social media, or the environment they grew up in.

But if we are being honest, many of the opinions people strongly defend were already waiting for them long before they ever questioned them.

You see it during arguments all the time.

Someone repeats political talking points almost word for word, another person immediately labels anybody with a different opinion as "crazy," "evil," or "lost."

Some people insist there is only one correct way to live: go to school, get a job, get married, have children, and follow the same pattern everybody else follows.

And once anybody questions that pattern, the reaction often becomes emotional very quickly.

There is actually a philosophical idea for this kind of behavior.

Philosopher Hilary Lawson describes it using the phrase "dead closures", inherited ways of seeing the world that quietly shape how people think, judge others, and understand reality itself.

The unsettling part is that most people do not even realize it is happening.

The Ideas We Absorb Without Noticing

In many homes, certain beliefs are treated as unquestionable truths. Some people grow up with rigid expectations about marriage, masculinity, status, or politics without ever asking where those ideas originally came from.

Social media has intensified this pattern. Many people now confuse belonging to a group with thinking independently. Once someone becomes attached to an online community or political side, opinions can start sounding collective.

The same phrases get repeated, disagreement becomes personal, and criticism is treated almost like betrayal. After a while, it becomes difficult to tell where personal thought ends and group identity begins.

What "Dead Closures" Really Mean

A "closure" is basically a way human beings interpret the world. People naturally organize reality into assumptions and familiar patterns so life feels understandable.

The problem begins when those patterns become automatic.

Philosopher Martin Heidegger once argued that modern society mainly sees nature as something to use.

Trees become timber, rivers become resources, animals become products andHeidegger called this way of seeing the world "standing reserve" — the tendency of modern technological thinking to reduce everything, including nature, into an orderly resource to be stored and exploited. Most people rarely stop to think about other ways of relating to the natural world because this mindset has become normal.

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That is what Lawson means by a dead closure: a framework people continue following without consciously examining it.

Also, many people move through major decisions because society presented them as the expected path. School, career, marriage, children, success — these things are not necessarily wrong, but people rarely pause to ask themselves why they want them in the first place.

Sometimes the answer is genuine desire, while sometimes it is social conditioning wearing the face of personal choice.

Questioning Things Does Not Mean Rejecting Everything

Questioning beliefs does not mean rejecting tradition, culture, or morality. The point is awareness.

A person should occasionally ask: "Why do I believe this?" or "Did I truly arrive at this conclusion myself?"

Because once people stop examining their assumptions, they become easier to manipulate. Public conversations become hostile, group loyalty replaces honest thinking, and people begin reacting automatically instead of thoughtfully..

Independent Thinking Is Harder Than It Looks

None of us completely escape influence.

We are humans and so we are shaped by the cultures and environments around us which is unavoidable.

The uncomfortable truth is that independent thinking is harder than we admit. It requires self-awareness, curiosity, humility, and the willingness to question ideas that feel familiar.

And sometimes, the opinions that feel most personal are the ones we examined the least.


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