Grief to Grit: Mother's Loss Ignites Healing Running Movement

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Precious Eseaye
Precious Eseaye
Grief to Grit: Mother's Loss Ignites Healing Running Movement

A growing movement of running clubs designed to support individuals through grief is transforming how people cope with loss. These communities offer structured environments that blend physical activity with emotional healing, helping members navigate the complexities of bereavement. From Boston to Austin, these groups have become safe havens for those seeking connection, resilience, and renewal. Runner’s World reports that such initiatives are reshaping the social and emotional role of running in people’s lives.

One of the most inspiring stories is that of E-Motion, founded by Myra Sack in Boston. After losing her two-year-old daughter, Havi, to Tay-Sachs disease in 2021, running became Sack’s most essential coping tool. What began as an informal gathering evolved into E-Motion, a network now active in 25 U.S. cities. Each Sunday, participants begin their run by naming their lost loved one, followed by a reflective mile of silence. Sack, now a certified compassionate bereavement facilitator, has also integrated a 10-minute visualization to help runners focus on their memories. Her story, shared in The Boston Globe, underscores how personal tragedy can blossom into a powerful collective mission.

Experts explain why running can be such a transformative response to grief. Mary-Frances O’Connor, PhD — author of The Grieving Brain and professor at the University of Arizona — describes loss as triggering both “protest” and “despair” responses that heighten stress and cortisol levels. The steady rhythm of running helps calm the nervous system, offering structure when emotions feel chaotic. This grounding effect, O’Connor explains, makes running a therapeutic space for both body and mind.

In Austin, Sam Hendel created Good Grief, a club born from her own heartbreak after losing her mother. Frustrated by typical running clubs focused on fitness or dating, she founded a group centered on healing. Good Grief’s weekly runs two-and-a-half or four miles — feature pacers trained to hold compassionate conversations about loss. Hendel’s yellow sunflower-themed branding pays homage to her mother, Rita. According to Women’s Running, Good Grief has become a beacon of community for those processing profound pain.

Another remarkable organization is Wear Blue: Run To Remember, a nonprofit honoring fallen U.S. service members. Participants start each session by speaking the names of the fallen, symbolically carrying their memories forward. For people like Rachel Elizalde, who lost her brother in Iraq in 2007, this ritual has provided enduring comfort. With chapters in over 20 U.S. cities, Wear Blue transforms personal grief into collective remembrance and resilience.

The social dimension of these running clubs is equally healing. Experts like Mike Gortowski, LCPC, note that running side-by-side fosters “co-regulation,” where shared rhythm creates a sense of safety and understanding. Silence, too, becomes a language allowing members to grieve without needing to explain. This emotional synchrony, as studies on community wellness show, strengthens mental health and resilience over time.

Yet, experts caution that balance is key. While movement helps process pain, overexertion can become avoidance. Gortowski advises alternating between rest and movement, paying attention to whether exercise replenishes or drains energy. Mindful pacing ensures that physical recovery complements emotional healing rather than masks it.

The impact of these communities often lasts a lifetime. Years after her brother’s death, Elizalde now leads Wear Blue’s endurance program, building virtual networks of remembrance. Hendel credits Good Grief with helping her form deep, lasting friendships through shared vulnerability. For Sack, every E-Motion run keeps her daughter’s memory alive, channeling sorrow into solidarity. Those seeking similar communities can explore resources like Meetup.com to find or launch local grief run clubs proving that through shared motion, even the heaviest hearts can begin to heal.

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