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Defying Norms: Polyamorous Family with Two Wives and Girlfriend Claims Kids Thrive Against Trolls!

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Precious Eseaye
Precious Eseaye
Defying Norms: Polyamorous Family with Two Wives and Girlfriend Claims Kids Thrive Against Trolls!

A unique family dynamic is being openly shared by Trell, his two wives Emily and Allie, and his girlfriend Kiley, as they navigate the joys and challenges of raising children in a polyamorous household. This quad-parenting unit collectively cares for Trell's children: 16-year-old Lili (from a previous relationship but raised within the family), 4-year-old Reign, and 2-month-old baby Chicago.

The recent integration of Kiley into the family has been met with positive reception, particularly concerning childcare responsibilities. Allie expressed that life has become "easier" since Kiley joined, describing her as "definitely another helping hand." Trell noted that while they weren't actively seeking another member, Kiley possessed "a different energy" that drew them together. Kiley, who had no prior experience with polyamorous relationships, identifies herself as an "open person."

Their living arrangement reflects their close bond, with Emily humorously sharing that they "never sleep separately," instead preferring to be "piled on to the bed like sardines." This intimate dynamic reinforces their commitment to a shared life and mutual support.

Adjustments to the family structure have been a part of their journey. While the younger children, Reign and Chicago, have known only a polyamorous family environment, Lili initially took some time to adapt to Kiley's presence. However, the family reports that Lili and Kiley are now inseparable, highlighting the successful integration over time.

The family actively challenges societal misconceptions about polyamory and child-rearing. Trell firmly believes that far from being inappropriate, their children benefit from "more love in the house." The mothers, including Emily, are particularly grateful for the shared workload, expressing disbelief at "how single mums do it." They implement a shift system for childcare, allowing one adult to rest while the others manage the children, demonstrating a practical and supportive approach to parenting.

Despite their open sharing of insights into their relationship online, the family has encountered significant backlash. They regularly face cruel comments from trolls who predict their relationship's failure, and Trell has even been subjected to derogatory labels like "pimp." Unfazed by such negativity, Trell eloquently defends their choices, stating, "If we love each other and we have a family and we're building a family, what does that have to do with you? It's just ignorant."

Furthermore, their unique dynamic has led to estrangement from friends who do not approve. However, the family maintains a resilient stance, considering it "good riddance" to those who do not support their love. Allie encapsulates their philosophy, remarking, "They say it takes a village to raise a kid, well this is it," powerfully articulating the strength and collective effort behind their family unit.

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