Social media influencer Gehgeh has sparked a wave of controversy after making provocative remarks about marriage traditions during a recent episode of The Honest Bunch podcast. Discussing the symbolism of proposals, Gehgeh argued that African men should not kneel to propose to women, calling the act “un-African.” He further claimed that men “do women a favour” by marrying them, a statement that has since ignited fierce debate online.

Despite pushback from fellow hosts, who emphasized the emotional and physical sacrifices women make in marriage — from accepting proposals to raising children and managing households — Gehgeh remained unmoved. He insisted that men “don’t need marriage for anything,” asserting that he personally does not need a woman “for anything” beyond procreation. Gehgeh went on to say that having children does not require formal marriage or ceremonial proposals, challenging conventional marital norms.

The remarks have since triggered a social media storm, drawing polarized reactions across Nigerian online spaces. Many users have condemned his views as sexist and regressive, while others defended his statements as a reflection of traditional African perspectives. The conversation has dominated platforms like X (formerly Twitter) and Instagram, with critics calling for more balanced discussions around gender roles, cultural expectations, and evolving ideas of partnership in modern Africa.