Award-winning Nigerian author Chimamanda Adichie has publicly addressed the circumstances surrounding the birth of her twin sons via surrogacy, opening up about the criticism she faced and her motivations for sharing her story. Adichie's decision to speak out aims to challenge the stigma surrounding fertility issues and non-traditional paths to motherhood, advocating for greater openness and ethical surrogacy practices.

During an appearance at the ‘#WithChude Live’ event hosted by media entrepreneur Chude Jideonwo, Adichie discussed the challenges and reactions following her announcement. She highlighted that her intention was to alleviate the shame often associated with fertility struggles and to provide support for women considering or undergoing similar experiences. Adichie expressed disappointment that her personal decision became politicized, adding pressure on women facing fertility challenges.

Adichie emphasized the importance of honesty and transparency, stating that she could not conceal the existence of her twins. She addressed comments about her age and motherhood, clarifying that her twins were born via surrogacy, despite some public assumptions. She revealed that she felt compelled to correct the narrative when someone complimented her on looking great after having babies, as the compliment was not based on reality.

The author acknowledged the criticisms leveled against surrogacy, particularly concerns about the potential for exploitation. She stated that while surrogacy can be dehumanizing if not handled ethically, it is possible to approach it in a way that respects the surrogate's rights and well-being. Adichie noted the contradictory views on women’s autonomy, pointing out that some critics who advocate for women's rights over their bodies also condemn surrogacy.

Despite the backlash, Adichie maintained that she has no regrets about her decision to have children through surrogacy. She described her children as the greatest gift she has received and expressed hope that her openness will encourage other women to feel less ashamed about pursuing non-traditional paths to motherhood. Adichie highlighted the tendency for women who undergo surrogacy or adoption to hide their experiences due to societal judgment, which she believes is detrimental.

Adichie's decision to speak out about her surrogacy journey is part of a broader effort to challenge societal norms and promote greater understanding and acceptance of diverse family structures. She aims to create a more supportive environment for women facing fertility issues and to encourage open conversations about alternative paths to parenthood.