Hi Chris,

Is there such a thing as a soulmate? Someone out there who’s just right for me?

Soul-Mate

Hi Soul-Mate

Although the divorce statistics suggest otherwise, there is someone out there who’s just right for you. When you find them, you’ll just know and you’ll suddenly realise why things never worked out before.

It will probably take you a while to realise that you’re with ‘The One’. But you’ll start to notice a few things early on, like making each other laugh.

For example, you’ll make each other laugh. Finding someone with a sense of humour that matches yours is hard, but your soulmate will know how to reach you when it matters most. They’ll make you laugh even when you’re really miserable.

You won’t nag each other or keep score. Soulmates quickly realise that some things aren’t worth the hassle. When you know you’ll be spending your life with someone, you soon learn to let a lot of the little things go. You’re good at making each other happy for the best reason there is: Because you want to, not because there’s some sort of competition going on. It’s not because there’s some sort of competition going on.

You listen to each other and can share your thoughts honestly without criticising each other. You resolve arguments without tearing each other apart. You stay focused and learn to forgive and apologise. Your soulmate won’t use your apologies as an opportunity to make you feel bad.

Your soulmate will know you better than you know yourself. They’ll know your clothing sizes, your favourite foods and what you’re worrying about. They will also give you insights into yourself that you could never have discovered on your own.

Soulmates start to develop a joint game plan very early on. Each day, in some small way, you’re constantly working towards your goals together.

You’ll also have a deep sexual chemistry. You’ll touch and kiss each other confidently. You’ll be tender and adventurous and always make time for intimacy, no matter how difficult life becomes. Because you know how to please each other and meet each other’s physical needs, you’ll never part.

All the best,

Chris