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Look at your kid, your actual real kid. What is important to them? Does feeling “at home” impact their happiness? Are they a terrible sleeper who needs a comfortable bed? Are they indifferent to lots of clothing so the dresser provided is adequate? Are they bringing expensive musical equipment that will need to be protected?

Shopping for college can feel like a generic experience with long lists of “must-haves,” but you are only sending off one teen you know so well, so make sure this college shopping journey is just about them.

All you need to do is look around a big box store on any summer afternoon to know this is not always true. Eye-rolling teens and stressed-out moms abound. The whole process is a lot easier when your kid is on board. Think good night’s sleep, well-fed teen, friends otherwise occupied.

Yep, been there. Here are a few tactics: I gave you life; you give me an hour of your summer to get you set. Fair trade? I used this one to significant effect.

Grab a snack; we are shopping online. Finally, there are always threats or bribes.

This is a competitive category, and lots of stores want your business. Here are a few of the upcoming offers we’ve found: 

Save over 50% on a membership, 20% off a storewide purchase (6/29-9/27) & more as a verified student. Target Circle membership can also help with perks and savings. 

will give your teen 25% off: Text COLLEGE to 22822 for 25% off their purchase plus be eligible for special offers.

Not a Prime member? Join now or sign up your 18-24 for their own Young Adult Prime membership Lots of great savings on many of our favorite Grown and Flown dorm things can be found during this annual event. Here is where you can find all the early deals already live on Amazon. 

4th of July Warehouse Sale (6/20 – 7/6): Up to 60% Off. Prices as marked.

While the dorms may look the same, the world has changed beyond recognition, and I had to keep telling myself, “They have the internet.” Concentrate on buying your freshmen the items they need knowing that you can pick up extras on move-in day or order them online once they have a better idea of dorm living.

There is no reason to make this a summer-long project. Find one store where you can check off most, if not all, of your list and complete the task.

Check out the college dorm sections on the Target website for some of the best one-stop selections.

I have three kids and, for me, 12 years in the dorms; you better believe we did hand-me-downs. You can pass down items used for only a year or two if this is your eldest. If this is one of your younger kids, quality items will make it into their first apartments. Junk won’t make it through the first semester.

It is unlikely that your teen needs every item on their list, and you may already have some of the things they need at home. Answer these 50 questions, and then use the college’s list as a jumping-off point to create your list tailored to your kid.

If you know what dorm your student is living in, drill down to see if there is a floor plan showing the furniture provided and the lofted bed height. This under-bed real estate will be your student’s most important space to maximize. Find the list of prohibited items at your teen’s college to avoid costly mistakes.

This is a BIG undertaking, the mother of all back-to-school shopping trips; go where you will get the help you need. That is a plus if you can shop at brick-and-mortar retailers with sales associates knowledgeable about dorm merchandise.

Explore any options for virtual styling and online support for online shopping to enhance your shopping. Remember to take note of return policies and keep all receipts.

If you travel any distance or don’t have a large SUV or minivan, shipping is inevitable. Let someone else pay for it.

Target offers a Pick Up Service — This is perfect for items always in stock that you can pick up once you’re on campus.

Amazon Prime for 18-24 year olds  — this might be the best time for your student to move off your Prime account and onto their own. They will get unlimited FREE two-day shipping and exclusive deals. 

Pottery Barn Teen also offers a way to shop there and pick up at stores in their family of shops including Pottery Barn, West Elm, and William-Sonoma.

You need help if you have their buy-in, and here is how to get it if there are snacks or something they want to shop for — other than sheets and towels — factor in that time for the outing.

Our teens could not have cared less about thread count, but they could quickly feel the differences in how sheets felt to the touch. When you buy at a store with a broad selection, spend some time with the sheet fabric samples before deciding.

Unless you’re shipping directly from the store, wash the linens before you pack them so they are soft and free of any excess dye if you choose dark colors.

It seems so simple, but teens tell us they sit on their beds reading in a way they never did at home (no family room couch to lounge on in the dorm) and a big square or a bed rest pillow to prop against the wall turns their bed into a comfortable spot to study. Sure, studying in the library is a better idea, but making their room feel more like home is a great idea too.

There is a wide range of toppers at different prices, and ViscoSoft has award-winning mattress toppers that would work very well on a dorm bed. They are super comfortable, easy to clean, durable, and provide an ick-safe barrier between your teens and the really old dorm mattress that’s typically offered.

The ViscoSoft Dusk topper has a machine-washable cover and a non-slip bottom panel and is less expensive than their other models. 

Are the machines in their dorms or across the quad? My kids love laundry baskets that slide under their beds and out of the way. Others find a traditional hamper suits them better. The options are endless.

Don’t buy a giant premade first aid kit; they are generic and ignore your teen’s real needs. Use a plastic box and, with your teen, gather together the items they will want at school in your own first aid kit.  It is a great chance to discuss what medications to use when and what symptoms require a visit to the health center. Most freshmen get sick; some get sick often. This will happen at 2 am and they, and you, will be glad you prepared.

Many first-year students don’t have a car, and a local drug store may not be within walking distance. If they have some under-bed storage anyway, extra shampoo, soap, body wash, deodorant, and razor blades will not go amiss. Sure, they can order these things online, but they will do that after the last drop.

The IKEA blue bags are legendary for moving into dorm rooms but we have not found them on Amazon – with fulfillment from IKEA – during the last few years. They are back! These bags are lightweight, durable, and can fold flat for storage to be used for moving out.

We would love to think they used them, and a few do, but many never open them or forget they even exist. #dormlife

My son showed up at a suite with three coffee makers because the suitemates did not communicate beforehand. A few quick emails will save everyone time, money, and broken carafes on the dorm room floor.

It’s easy to focus on sheets and towels, things we know well. Electronics are some of the most significant expenses, and it is an ever-changing market.

In addition to a laptop and phone, we recommend these tech essentials for their dorm room: