Woman Experiences Humiliation at Husband's Burial
In a harrowing incident that has ignited national outrage, Mellen Mogaka, a woman from Nyamira County, Kenya, was subjected to severe mistreatment and violence during the burial of her estranged husband, Joseph Osoro. The events, which took place in Nyabisimba village, have exposed the contentious intersection of cultural practices and human rights, thrusting the community into the center of a heated debate.
Mogaka's ordeal began when she received a call from her mother-in-law, urging her to bring her children to pay their last respects to their father, despite the strained relationship that led to her separation from Osoro nearly a year prior. Reluctantly, Mogaka, accompanied by her parents, Nehemiah Matundura and Jelia Kerubo, and her children, traveled to Nyabisimba, unaware of the humiliation and violence that awaited her.
Upon arrival, Mogaka was reportedly locked in a room with Osoro's body, a deeply traumatizing experience. The situation escalated dramatically at the graveside when a group of men demanded that she participate in a cultural ritual by throwing soil into the grave. Mogaka's refusal to comply triggered a brutal assault. According to her account, she was beaten, molested, and had soil forced into her clothes and hair. “One woman poured soil all over me, including inside my inner clothes, hair, and ears. A man struck me in the stomach, and my entire body is swollen. I want the government to help me because I have no one else to turn to,” she pleaded.
The assault was recorded and the video quickly went viral, sparking widespread condemnation. Feminist groups and the National Gender and Equality Commission (NGEC) demanded immediate action against the perpetrators. However, some community members defended the actions as a necessary enforcement of cultural traditions. Elder Obino Nyambane stated, “We cannot call this a human rights issue; it is about culture and the traditions of a people who should respect their customs.”
Under mounting pressure, police detectives launched an investigation, leading to the arrest of several suspects. Jones Manyasa Mokua, 46, was apprehended in Nyamira Township, while Martin Obino, 41, Zachariah Nyariki, 39, and Robert Makori, 26, were found hiding in the Kenyenya area of Bogichora. They, along with Robert Pokea Sarudi, 43, Bismark Ondiek Sarudi, 40, and Lameck Ogindo Osoro, 27, were detained at Kiambere Police Station as the investigation continued.
The NGEC has strongly condemned the attack, with chairperson Rehema Jaldesa describing it as a blatant violation of human rights and gender equality. Jaldesa emphasized that such harmful cultural practices violate Article 27 of the Constitution, which guarantees equality and freedom from discrimination. “This egregious violation of human rights constitutes gender-based violence, assault, and coercion — criminal acts punishable under Kenyan law,” Jaldesa stated, urging for swift prosecution of those responsible.
The incident has ignited a critical conversation about the balance between cultural preservation and the protection of individual rights, particularly those of women, within the framework of Kenyan law and constitutional principles.