Kajol, renowned for her sharp wit and timeless charm, recently offered a light-hearted yet profoundly insightful perspective on maintaining a strong and happy marriage with her husband, actor Ajay Devgn. In a new interview, the celebrated Kuch Kuch Hota Hai actress shared what she playfully refers to as the personal secret to their enduring relationship, emphasizing that it involves 'partial deafness and selective amnesia.'

During an interview with Mashable India, Kajol delved into the interesting dynamic that characterizes her relationship with Ajay Devgn. She noted the amusing contrast: while Ajay tends to be quiet, she enjoys talking. When questioned about how they navigate such differing personalities, Kajol humorously revealed her long-standing mantra: "Oh, I say that quite often—the secret to a happy marriage is partial deafness and selective amnesia." She further elaborated with a laugh, stating, "Kuch cheezein bhoolni bohot zaruri hai, aur kuch cheezein na sunni bohot zaruri hai," which translates to, "It’s very important to forget certain things, and equally important not to hear some things." This philosophy, she implies, is crucial for harmonious co-existence.

Beyond her marital insights, Kajol also surprised many by revealing Ajay Devgn’s hidden culinary talent in the same interview. She shared that Ajay is, in fact, one of the best cooks she has ever encountered. Describing his unique ability, she said, "Unki khaasiyat hai, vo kisi bhi cheez ko ek baar taste karte hai, he would know how to make it exactly the same." However, much to Kajol's amusement, Ajay remains tight-lipped about his recipes, as she added, "He would never tell you his secret ingredients for his recipes."

The genesis of their enduring love story traces back to the sets of the film Hulchul in 1995, where they first met. Filmmaker Anees Bazmee, who directed the movie, recalled observing the quiet blossoming of their affection even when others on set might not have noticed. He noted that despite their starkly contrasting personalities—Ajay being serious and quiet but possessing a playful side, and Kajol being bubbly, full of life, and mischievous—something between them simply clicked. Bazmee fondly remembered that while they never explicitly stated their feelings, their growing bond was evident to him, making him genuinely happy when they eventually tied the knot.

Their connection was not born out of grand romantic gestures or dramatic proposals, but rather developed organically. As Ajay himself once shared on Ranveer Allahabadia’s podcast when asked about why he married Kajol, he simply smiled and said, "I really don’t know… We started seeing each other without proposing. It just flowed." This sentiment underscores the natural and understated evolution of their relationship, founded on mutual understanding and quiet camaraderie that deepened between takes and rehearsals.

After dating for nearly four years, Kajol and Ajay Devgn tied the knot in 1999. More than two decades later, with some reports indicating they have been married for 26 years, their love remains strong, rooted in friendship and deep understanding. Throughout their journey, they have successfully balanced thriving film careers with their family life, raising two children: their daughter Nysa, born in 2003, and their son Yug, born in 2010. The couple has also delighted fans by sharing the screen in nine films, including notable hits such as Pyaar To Hona Hi Tha, Ishq, Dil Kya Kare, Raju Chacha, and U, Me Aur Hum, showcasing their enduring chemistry both on and off screen.