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Aisha: The bridge is sanctuary for softness, storytelling, silence when need

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Aisha Abdullahi Adamu exemplifies a unique kind of leadership that prioritises substance over spectacle. As the Executive Director of New Age Group and founder of Ivory Conglomerate, she oversees diverse businesses spanning agriculture, oil and gas, mining, and procurement, while focusing on economic influence and community impact.

Her initiatives include building schools, funding health clinics, and designing university outreach programs, showcasing her strategic and empathetic approach to leadership. Her latest venture, The Bridge, an initiative under the Aisha Cares Program, which began as a leadership conference has transformed into an exclusive luxury brunch for women navigating change.

This intimate gathering emphasizes reflection, renewal, and vulnerability, replacing speeches with storytelling. By creating a space for women to connect over shared experiences, The Bridge challenges traditional notions of leadership and instead finds power in community and presence.

This year’s edition—second since it began—set to hold today (Saturday, May 24) in the Federal Capital Territory, Abuja, is particularly focused on presence over visibility, offering a deliberate respite from the loud and performative, and instead, grounding women in the power of shared moments.

Reflecting on the inspiration behind The Bridge creation, Aisha said, “Bridge is not just an event, it’s a sacred pause. It’s where women come to lay down their armour and pick up their truth—a space where we are allowed to just be without titles, without pressure.

“Life doesn’t slow down for women; we are constantly becoming mothers, leaders, daughters, nurturers, entrepreneurs, all at once. I wanted us to gather in truth and tenderness, not to perform, but to reflect. So I created The Bridge. It was inspired by my own need for such a space—a need I sensed echoed in the lives of many women I love and admire.”

“At The Bridge, we trade performance for presence. It is a sanctuary for softness, for storytelling, for silence when needed. It’s a gathering not about status, but about substance. It’s a space of witness and wonder, where every story matters, and no transition is too small to honour. It’s where the masks come off and the light gets in.

“It’s not about arrival; it’s about honouring the becoming. Beyond the aesthetics, it’s a gentle rebellion against the performance culture that demands we always show up polished and perfect,” she added.

Unlike the traditional conference that is often with knowledge but not always with nourishment. The Bridge comes with a different format— brunch—deeply feminine and luxuriously intentional.

“Every flower, every song, every silence is part of the architecture of healing,” Aisha states. “I wanted women to feel celebrated, seen, and safe. The brunch format allows for elegance, depth, and soul-stirring conversations in a setting that honours both our brilliance and our vulnerability.”

On the emotional preparation and design that goes into making the conference possible, Aisha adds: “It starts with trust—quietly earned, never demanded. The design of The Bridge prioritises gentleness—in tone, in music, in language, in space.

“Every detail is curated to whisper, ‘you can exhale here.’ From the storytelling prompts to the memory wall; from the warm lighting to the guest list—they are all designed to disarm without intrusion. I prepare myself emotionally too. I don’t come as a host; I come as a woman in transition, just like the others.”

Asked why storytelling is clearly central to this year’s gathering Aisha who is also the founder, director and humanitarian leading the charge at the Child Rights Foundation (CRF), a non-governmental organisation on a mission to empower women through education, thus creating a brighter and promising future for them said: “Because stories are how we remember, how we connect, and how we make meaning of our journeys.

“A woman might sit across from you with a life that looks nothing like yours on the surface, but in her voice you hear your own longing, your own courage, your own becoming. At The Bridge, storytelling is not just a feature, it’s the heartbeat. It’s what makes us look at one another and say, I see you. I honour you. I’ve walked that road too.

“The Bridge has evolved from a conference to something far more sacred—a society brunch rooted in storytelling, legacy, and intimacy. We have moved from panels to presence; from just gathering women to building a sisterhood.

“This year, we are unveiling our first alumni circle, The Bridge Sisters, a network of women who continue to grow with us beyond the event. The rituals, the symbolism, the intentionality—it’s all deepened.”

She noted that there are silent but powerful results The Bridge has produced that people may not see in photographs or headlines. “It’s in the women who quietly left the event and finally launched that business; the mother who forgave herself, the sister who found the courage to begin again.

“It’s in the text messages I still receive months later saying, ‘That day changed something in me.’ Those silent shifts—the ones that happen in the heart—are the loudest proofs of our impact,” Aisha enthused.

On the choice of the name ‘The Bridge’; what it symbolize—personally and structurally—in the context of empowerment, the convener states that: “A bridge is not a destination, it’s a passage, and that is what life is—a series of crossings.

“Personally, I have had many—stepping into leadership, navigating grief, motherhood, and self-doubt. Structurally, I see The Bridge as a connector between generations, between potential and purpose, between silence and voice.”

Looking back at the very first edition of The Bridge, what lessons stood out the most for you, and how are those lessons shaping what you are doing differently or more intentionally this second time around?

I learned that women crave safe spaces—spaces where vulnerability is not exploited but honoured. This year, I’m creating more room for reflection, memory, and sacred sisterhood. We are slowing down the tempo, choosing softness, allowing stories to breathe. Every detail has a soul now.

On what participants will take away from The Bridge 2, and how they can apply it to their own lives and work, Aisha said: “I want them to leave with courage, clarity, and community. And to remember: no matter where you are in life, you are still becoming. Keep crossing. Keep believing. The Bridge is not the end—it’s the becoming.”

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