When you become the best version of yourself, you are basically letting go of the old you and welcoming in the new you. This blog post is for the woman who wants to feel better, confident and enjoy her life more. For the woman who want to feel worthy, valued and create her dream life by choosing herself and working on becoming the best version of herself.

If you want to have better family relationships, better parenting, more peace, love, joy and purpose in your life. Than personal growth habits are for you.

Being a mother of three is very demanding and stressful at times. Sometimes I forget to take care of myself and I allow the mom that I do not want to be come out. You know the mom who is constantly yelling, never has a break and feels resentment. That mom is not who I want to be.

That’s why it’s so important to always remind yourself that you can change and become the person who you want to be and become the best version of yourself. When you stop putting yourself down and take ownership of who you are. You are able to change, have a growth mindset and create positivity in all areas of your life.

Ready to take control of yourself and become the best version of you? Let’s go!

1.Self Love & Acceptance

In order to start becoming the best version of yourself, you have to START to love and accept yourself first.

So many of us go through life not loving ourselves because we feel lost. We either lose ourselves through motherhood, or people in our lives has made us feel not good enough. So we stop being who we are to please others. To seek validation from others and we become someone that we’re not.

You deserve to be happy and be YOURSELF! Understand that the only one you need validation from is GOD. And he’s already giving you validation. When you let go of pleasing others, of being someone that you’re not, just to be loved or fit in.

You will set yourself FREE. Accepting and loving yourself is telling yourself that you are good enough just the way that you are.

Loving and accepting yourself is loving yourself with your flaws and all. It’s about personal growth.

Is loving how you look right now, embracing your true self and letting her come out more and more.

It doesn’t mean that you can’t work on the things that you want to change, it just means that right now you love and accept yourself for who you are and how you look in this moment.

Loving and accepting yourself is not allowing others to tell you how to feel, act and who to be. But instead, not allowing others to CHANGE you or make you feel less than because you know WHO YOU ARE and you love and accept yourself.

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2.Growing closer to God

When you put your trust and faith in the LORD. Magic happens. You can’t be the best version of yourself if you don’t believe and have faith in JESUS. Removing any temptation, self-destructive behaviors and creating healthy habits that will get you closer to God.

Even through your pain, through your struggles, even through a broken marriage or parenting failures. Broken relationships, debt, unemployment and Grief.

God is with you! You will make it through because you have the lord who is your savior. When you hold on to his hope and love and forgiveness and grace. You become a better human being because you want to be more like JESUS.

Therefore becoming the best version of you and the person that God has created you to be. When you remember that God loves you, he forgives you, he doesn’t judge you and is fighting YOUR BATTLES…

Who can be against you? 

“The battle is the Lords. The Victory is Yours”.

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3.Practice gratitude

Practicing gratitude helps you have significant changes in your personal lives. You will be a better and more positive person. As a mom we sometimes focus too much on the negative, our wrongs and failures that we don’t see how amazing our lives really are.

Being grateful for your healthy kids, your job, your home, clothes, food on the table, your family can make you turn things around. Being grateful for your life right now will open more doors for the things that you want in the future.

So mama, more gratitude, more joy and more hope.

Gratitude keeps you grounded, gives you hope and shifts your perspective in life.

When you practice gratitude it helps you see the good things in your life and gratitude gives you joy.

Gratitude helps you be satisfied with your life instead of wishing you had another one.

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4.Self-Care

Did you know that the minute that I started to prioritizing myself more as a mom, My life became easier and better?

I was happier, more patient and present with my kids and family. I found out that I can take care of myself, do things for me and still be a good mom and wife.

Ever wonder why you’re so tired all of the time? or why you’re always yelling at your kids? Or way you’re so moody and angry as a mom?

It’s because you are not filling your cup.You are neglecting yourself and running on an empty fuel. How do you expect to be a better mom when you don’t do anything for yourself? When you’re the one carrying most of the parenting load, it takes a toll on your body and mental health.

So start putting yourself first, practice self care and become the best version of you today! It will increase your self-esteem, helps you get out of your comfort zone and helps you feel better about yourself.

5.Healing and forgiving

Have you ever had a really hard time forgiving someone who really hurt you? Made you feel like you couldn’t be yourself or just plain betrayed you? It could be your mother, friend, husband, ex-partner or friend. 

Whoever it was and whatever the situation was, you cannot fathom to forgive them.

Why should you when they’re the one who hurt you? Why should you just give in to that? They don’t deserve your forgiveness or grace. How dare them!

But forgiving is not about them or for them. Forgiving is about you and for you.

When you forgive, real growth happens and you HEAL.

When you heal you become the best version of yourself!

6.Rewriting your story

The best thing about deciding to become the best version of you is that you get to rewrite your story. You don’t have to feel stuck or become hopeless about your life.You get to decide to make positive changes, to create better habits and to be the woman that you want to be.

Let go of the past, stop worrying about the future and be in the present Moment. Right now what needs to change ? What small action can you take today to become the best version of yourself?

When you decide that you want to rewrite your story. You take your power back and you stop letting other people tell you who you are, how to act or what to think about yourself.

You get to decide that on your own.You have power to create your dream life and become the person that you want to be.

Do it for you, for your kids and for your younger self.

7. Becoming

Now it’s time to become the best version of you. How? By stepping into the woman and person that you want to become. Taking daily action steps into BEING the best version of you. By going back to the last 6 steps and practicing everyday.

You are so deserving of having the life of your dreams and being the person that you truly want to be. Truly healed, truly happy and truly YOURSELF.

I hope you truly found this blog post super helpful in becoming the best version of yourself and take control of your life.