Most Americans know Memorial Day as the start of summer, the day the grill comes out and the pool opens. But behind every Memorial Day celebration is a history rooted in loss, reflection and respect. It’s a day that blends quiet remembrance with time-honored traditions like parades, picnics and hometown gatherings.

The earliest Memorial Day observances began after the Civil War. Communities across the country started honoring fallen soldiers by decorating their graves with flowers, leading to the holiday’s original name: Decoration Day. One of the most well-known early efforts came in 1868, when Union General John A. Logan called for a nationwide day of remembrance on May 30. That idea took hold quickly, and soon towns were marking the date with ceremonies, speeches and processions.

Over time, Memorial Day expanded to honor all American military personnel who died in service. Congress made it a federal holiday in 1971, choosing the last Monday in May to create a long weekend. That three-day break helped the holiday evolve into something broader–a time for family get-togethers, community festivals and backyard cookouts. Still, the heart of the day remains tied to its original meaning: honoring those who gave everything.

Traditional ways to mark the occasion still hold strong. Local parades often feature veterans and marching bands, while others visit cemeteries to place flags on graves or attend memorial services. The national moment of silence at 3:00 PM local time is a simple but powerful act of collective remembrance. These acts help connect the celebration to its deeper purpose.

Of course, food plays a big role in how many people celebrate the day. From classic deviled eggs and baked beans to star-spangled desserts, Memorial Day cookouts are packed with vintage recipes and old-school favorites. Many families also bring along lawn games, music and red, white and blue decorations to round out the celebration with a dose of patriotic flair.

We’ve gathered photos, vintage cards, recipes and historical articles to help you plan a Memorial Day celebration that honors the past while enjoying the present. Whether you’re visiting a cemetery or just firing up the grill, it’s a chance to remember, reflect and celebrate American traditions–old and new.